Based on your interest, I wrote a second book focusing on Enneagram type compatibility in intimate relationships. And I always like to hear from you so feel free to drop me a line at TO MY BLOG POST ABOVE:Īfter I wrote this post in 2016, I noticed hundreds of people were visiting this page every day looking for information about Enneagram type compatibility. I have written two books on the topic.įollow me on Facebook and Instagram. You can read my story: Connecting the Dots: How I Went from Being a San Francisco CFO to an Athens Yoga Instructor. Based on my experience, I believe Kundalini Yoga combined with the Enneagram is one of the fastest paths to transformation. I worked as a CPA in the San Francisco Bay area for 15 years until I decided to move to Athens, Greece. Go here for Kundalini Yoga kriyas (exercise sets) and meditations based on your Enneagram type. Learn more about Enneagram Compatability here!Ĭlick on the image above to learn more about the 45 Enneagram type combinations in relationships. These occurred more often than the statistical norm. The one exception to this was double Type Four couples. Same Enneagram personality type marriages occurred two times less often than statistically expected. Birds of a feather do not flock together! At least not in Enneagram terms as it relates to love….However male Type 8 (Leaders) were more often found with female Type 2 (Helpers) and female Type 6 (Loyalists). Female Type 8 (Leaders) were often found with male Type 9 (Peacemakers).However male Type 4 (Artists) with female Type 9 (Peacemakers) are extremely rare (2 couples). Male Type 9 (Peacemakers) are often found with female Type 4 (Artists) (16 couples in this study).Gender makes a difference when it comes to the frequency of the combinations. We should say female Type 2 (Helpers) are often found with male Type 8 (Leaders). We shouldn’t say Type 2 (Helpers) and Type 8 (Leaders) often go together. Men and women choose their partners differently. Man is Type 5 (Thinker) or Type 1 (Perfectionist) Man is Type 8 (Leader) or Type 9 (Peacemaker) This doesn’t mean these are the most successful combinations, it just means they happened in this study with the most frequency. That said, there are couplings that seem to happen more frequently.Įnneagram Compatibility: The Most Common Couplesīased on a study with 457 couples, below are the most common combinations. The two people will not understand each other enough to continue. If one person is highly self-aware and the other isn’t, at some point the relationship usually just stops making sense. Two highly unaware people may be able to continue in a relationship but it is usually characterized with relationship problems.Two highly self-aware people have the best chance of success.Enneagram compatibility is more about similar levels self-awareness than it is about personality type. All combinations may struggle if both people have a lack of self-awareness. The answer is that all type combinations can be happy together if both partners have high levels of self-awareness. After people learn their own Enneagram type, the next question I invariably get asked is “what types go well together?” or “who should I be with?” Everyone wants to know.
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